The Eddie Murphy Ideology

So i was at a bar the other night talking to one of my closest buddies and like usual we were talking about sex and our latest conquests.

Now the last fortnight has been good to the Blue Collar Aristocrat, without details the hook up count is at 7 and the hit it and quit it count is at 4.

This led my friend to ask the question "Does the strange beat exploring the depths of sex with your girlfriend"

If you look at this closer it becomes an intriguing question cause from all accounts that i have got, a one nighter is rarely as exploritory and physically stimulating as banging someone who knows what pushes your buttons . But how can the same piece of ass give you the rush you get from getting to enter something new?

My answer is simple,if sex is purely physical for you then get a girlfreind and fuck her in every way you can and practise a routine till you get to the point where you rock eachothers world.

If sex is also about a challenege and that initail rush then you need to go out and hunt down something new and savor that moment.

Me, im a hunt and savor guy! Nothing feels better than looking down at a girl you just met and seeing her look up at you then closing your eyes and feeling your dick go in her mouth for the first time.

I can forego the long term quality of the blowjob for the rush of that moment plus i figure if i bring my A game i can always fuck the girl good enough to have a great time whilst getting that surge of excitement from her being a conquest.

I watched my buddies expression as i told him this and by what i could see i was convinced he disagreed.

Then he threw me a curve ball

His reply made me think long and hard about life,love,loyalty and relationships

See my friend suggested the best way to be emotionally and sexually satisfied is to be in a relationship and cheat!!!!!

Now im a lot of things but i have never cheated on a woman i have been in a serious relationship with but it did cast my mind back to atime when i guess what i did was technically cheat

It was a while back and for this part of the story you will get details.I was dating a younger girl....i was 29 she was 19 and she was a hot piece of ass.Sadly she was inexperienced in bed and the sex wasnt great

Now we had gone on about 10 dates and spent a fair bit of time together but not made anything official . One night she cancelled on going out with me and i had been chatting with this other girl online so i decided to invite her over.

This girl came over for a drink and within 5 minutes we were fooling around and i can clearly remember the second she put my cock in her mouth the first thing i thought of was my "girlfriend" and i nearly blew then and there

See the rush of hitting some new ass was magnified so much by the rush of being bad and the feeling of doing something you shouldnt.

It brought out a naughty side in me and we got right into it,she blew me,i ate her out,she rode me i drilled her,she pinched me, i slapped her

I was so wound up i remember kneeling behind her and feeling like drilling her thru my wall.I had no attachment to this girl,she was less attractive than my "girlfrfiend" but i was ripping into her like a man possesed

What a stimulant cheating was!!!!

As i kicked this girl out,her makeup running,red faced and having just had me finish inside her my phone rang and it was my "girlfriend"

I started talking to her and i motioned to my booty call to come back

With that i could tell it turned the booty call on beijng "the other girl" and she unzipped my pants.Next thing you know im planning to meet my "girlfriend" on the phone while this stranger sucks me like my penis has the antidote.

Being a guy who rarely finishes from oral sex i was surprised to unload in her mouth within a few minutes.AS i hung up the phone my booty call said "thanx for a fun night think of me when you screw her " and walked off

I felt like i was in an episode of Cheaters

That night i eventually did meet up with my "girlfriend" and she gave me a blowjob in the back of my truck and you know what?

I did think about the booty call girl !!!!!!!

And the blowjob felt better as i pulled my "girlfriend" hair and taunghted her in my head knowing she was the second girl that night to blow me

As i write this i feel like a sleeze and would like to think i would not do that again but you know what my buddy is right ,the best sex you can have is "cheating on your girl sex" and the bonus of it is you go home and get that "i know how to push your buttons sex" off your girl

I feel stale with banging strangers at this point and am considering dating someone just so i can cheat on them.

Lots of girls like being the chick you use to cheat on your girl , it makes them feel like they are better than your girlfriend and it is a rush to be the cheater

Like all great experiences it has its flaws ,the main one being hurting a person you care for and also seeing how willing people are to cheat only makes you less trusting when you fall for that special someone.

So go forth and bed agirl behind your womans back,it will blow your mind BUt only take the journey if you can live with the consequences!

The BCA

Email with Up and Cumming Aussie Pornstar Bella Maree

Email Interview Bella Maree

Firstly Bella thanks for your time

So lets start at the beginning, what do you do currently, I notice your facebook has some gorgeous shots of you in not too much clothing?

I’m an Adult Entertainer in Adelaide, SA or as some people say Stripper lol. That explains the pics with very little clothing on ;)

I also visited your facebook (http://www.facebook.com/missbellamaree) and noticed you are considering a career in porn? Why and what appeals to you about it?

Hahaha considering......defiantly doing ;) I will be starting out this year with a couple of well known Australian companies making Girl/Girl porn. It is something that I have wanted to do since I got into the Adult Industry and as I’m bisexual it kind of made sense to do cheeky stuff with beautiful ladies.

Are you a really sexual person in your private life, does sex play a big part in your week?

Yes I am!! It doesn’t have to be intercourse but any kind of pleasure everyday of the week is fine with me ;)

Tell me your favourite sexual experience?

*It was actually a threesome with a couple around 2 years ago that I had NEVER met before. It was my first proper experience with a couple and I was so nervous!! I had no idea how I was going to pleasure 2 people at the same time and not leave anybody out. After a few drinks and a casual chat, we hit the spa and the magic happened. I can’t go into the whole story as they wouldn’t be very impressed if they found out I was sharing confidential things on the internet but, it was AMAZING!!!  

Size, Girth, Both or how you use it?

I’m a how you use it kind of girl ;) One piece of advice for all you guys out there.....don’t thrust like a jack rabbit all the time as it does NOTHING for us!! Learn to pleasure your girl like she deserves and stop being so fucking selfish.

Bad Boys, clean cut, sporty what grabs your eye first?

You need to look after yourself well but I go for what’s inside more than the outside. If your confident but not cocky, treat me like a princess and can put up with all the crazy shit I do without questioning it, you’re my kind of guy ;) This is exactly what my current man is like haha!!

Are guys intimidated by you when you are out on a Saturday night?

Well I work every weekend so it’s hard to answer that question but when I do get the chance to go out, they seem to be a little and I have no idea why.

If so what should they do, what’s the secret to picking up a sex bomb like yourself?

BE YOURSELF and don’t approach me when your rolling drunk because I won’t even acknowledge that your there!

Do you think sex with a stranger is hot?

It defiantly can be under the right circumstances ;)

Who do you fantasise about sexually?

I don’t actually fantasise over one particular person. It’s more like the situation that I’m in and what’s surrounding me. For example, I love bondage so thinking about being chained up but a bunch of ultra sexy women and being pleasure by them is more my type of thing ;)

How often do you masturbate and do you use toys?

I would have to say every other day that I’m not having sex lol and yes I use all sorts of toys, if I can be bothered reaching for the bottom draw.

Would you like to see a porn industry start up in Aus featuring home grown talent?

*There are already some of them around if you know where to look hahaha but yes, Australia needs a bigger Porn industry for sure.

Does Australia need more adult night spots and strip clubs and what should they offer?

Hmmmm I don’t think so. The reason why I say this is because when you actually work in the clubs and there are so many in the same city, it’s harder to make money. We only have 3 strip clubs here in Adelaide and from what I have heard, it’s still hard to make money some nights. I guess I look at it from a $$$ point of view though!

Would you go to a sex party?

HELL YES!!! These days I would watch the boys and play with girls though hehehe ;)

Is the USA too relaxed on sex or are Aus too uptight?

Australia is way too uptight!!! People in Oz need to relax and learn to go with it rather than worrying about the little things all the time.

You’re located in Aus, do you wish there were more opportunities down under for women in the adult industry?

Yes but it depends on how far you want to take your career in the porn industry! If you want to go all the way, get your butt over to the US I say ;) With saying this, it’s allot harder for men than women to actually get into the industry, so I wish they had more opportunities to work with.