Nothing Tastes as good as thin looks

The Kate Moss Conclusion

We are back again bloggers and today i will be preaching via the pulpit of the blogshpere about a controversial idiology

Hollywood is WORSE for the female body image than Porn

Now before you start yelling and emailing telling me thatporn is exploitive and is all about body image let me ask you a few questions to settle you down

1.Who has more size 4,6,8 and even 10 women as stars ? Porn or Hollywood
2.Which provides roles for more average looking women based on skillset?Porn or Hollywood
3.Which industry relies more on male desire for females of all looks and shapes?Porn or Hollywood

The answer to all those questions is Porn

If you belive hollywood the only kind of woman a man is attracted to is a size 2 with a nice tan and medium sized breasts.Well guess what that is a terrible representation of reality and it distorts the view of society.

For a girl who is 18 sitting at home she can watch any of the millions of cookie cutter love triangle movies Hollywood release every year and the first thing she will notice is the the womn cast as the homely,less attractive girl in the triangle is still hotter than almost all her freinds and herself.

This makes it so hard to grow up and feel attractive.

This is where eating disorders come from,an unrealistic and narrow idea of beauty.

When you meet women from the adult industry you would be surprised they are not petite,they are generally what was considered an hour glass figure back in the day and they cant go any thinner cause of their fake boobs and cause it would make them less visual on camera if they lost their curves

That same girl can browse Freeones and see Alexis Texas,Lisa Ann,Tanner Mayes and Brooke banner all sharing equal billing as women that men desire despite the fact they are all of differing age,appearance,shape and height.

Now the immediate counter arguement is that pornstars alter their body to stay in the business and i understand that but for every attractive pornstar turned plastic surgery nightmare there are a hundred cases that counter that arguement.Now im not the best guy to take on in the plastic surgery arguement as i have said previously that i believe there is nothing wrong with getting fake tits or big lips so that arguement doesnt wash with me especially since there are infinant Hollywood celebs that are almost unrecognisable due to surgery as they age.

If you get past all the cock sucking and pussy licking at the core of pornography is a man desiring a woman and vice versa.That is human nature and the fact that in the porn industry they represent the fact that men like women of all shapes and sizes maybe Hollywood could learn a thing or two from its shady little cousin.

Amateur porn is on the rise and i have previously stated i love watching a raw young woman explore her wild side on camera and for me thats what this arguement is about.We all want sex,we understand that the world is driven by it,that it sells and that everyone does it but at least porn doesnt try to pigeon hole it and tell us that we need to desire a certain kind of woman or a certain kind of look.

Porn is real, Hollywood is fake

Thats just me spitting the truth
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Interview with Nico Luna

Email Interview Nico Luna

Firstly thanks for your time, we love interviewing gorgeous women on the BCA Blog

I notice your website http://www.nicoluna.com is full of beautiful erotic content, who are you working with and what kind of content will members get to see?

Let this who I’m working with stay my small secret for a time. He is a very good European photographer – we would like to show quite a new face of erotica. As to the content – visit my website where everybody will find something for him, girls too. What I’m really proud of these are our attempts at combining porn and art. There are super hot for me.

What other than the obvious fact that men want to look at you attracted you to erotic content?

I would like to believe that men want to see both body and soul and this last one is sometimes even more sexually attractive than body itself.

But maybe you will ask those men;) hahhahaah

Are you highly sexual away from the camera?

Always;) even cooking dinner! hahahah

Men or Women do you have a preference and why?

I love both genders. Men have animal instincts and it’s hot. They are wild and insatiable, girls are more delicate but they know better what they want and perfectly know which buttons to press. It depends on what you want at the moment ... 

Your favorite sexual act/position would be….?

Hahah it’s not simple question…There are plenty of them. I like to study Kamasutra very much;)

Tell me your favorite personal sexual experience?

It took place in a porn cinema. I was playing around with a boy and we aroused quite big interest of men being there. I made love with my boyfriend on big stairs and about 30 guys doing themselves good gathered around us. Very stimulating! I can recommend hahaha

Bad Boys, clean cut, sporty what grabs your eye first?

Definitely bad boys - Sexy, inteligent, good looking, with dark souls;)

Are guys intimidated by you when you are out on the town?

Maybe a little bit sometimes and only those shy ones.

If so what should they do to have the honor of getting you in bed?

hahhaha it would be a very long list of things to be done;) generally man should impress me with something or ...have a lot of tattoos..that's hot!!!

Do you think sex with a stranger is hot?

Sometimes it is but in my opinion sex with somebody you feel something to, even hate, is more satisfying.

Who do you fantasize about sexually?

Mmmm… young Al Pacino, Hugh Laurie, Steven Tyler, Slash, Lenny Kravitz, Tommy Lee, Angelina Jolie, Pamela and off course Jenna Jameson;) But as to

common people and the most important is that they must be bad ones;)

How often do you masturbate and do you use toys?

I cannot tell... it would mean that I’m insatiable.;)

What do you say to those who judge your choice of career?

I think it’s not their business. If somebody doesn’t want to look at erotica, let him not do it. My website is for those who can play with sex. And those who cannot do that I recommend natural history websites;) I feel good with that what I do so it’s OK;)

Is there one thing sexually you haven’t tried but really want to?

Strap on;) I always wanted to do that but I haven’t got a chance.;) I would like to incarnate in man’s body, even partly – it’s very exciting!!

Is there anything you haven’t tried sexually and would NOT do?

In my opinion everything is for people (except sex with kids and animals) but in proper doses. I think that if I try everything till my thirty, it could then turn out that there is nothing more to try;) I would never agree for sex with animals!! Hahahah, of course there are things I haven’t done yet, I fantasize about them ... but I have my whole life for them. I can asure you that all my new experiences will be photographed and available at my website ;)

In your own words describe how an orgasm feels for you?

Hahha, I always compare it with a wave… sometimes it’s smaller, sometimes like tsunami… but I’m always wet, hahahah

The Nicky Hilton Theory

Never Underestimate Desire

So we are back and again we are going to delve into the intellectual approach to animalistic sex.

This topic is one i hold dear and have profitted from on numerous occasions,i call it the Ugly Duckling or Nicky Hilton Theory

What is it exactly ? Let me explain

In life we dont all recieve the same gifts physically,emotionally or mentally .This creates a need to evolve and if you can look beyond the basics of fashion and presentation it can open a few sexual doors.

The reason i call this the Nicky Hilton Theory is simple.

We would in large agree Paris Hilton is hotter than Nicky,Paris dresses sluttier and has had a video broadcast to the world of her getting fucked.

But for anyone that saw that video she was pretty lazy and uninspiring.

Life experiences and intellect tell me if you want to fuck a Hilton sister yu should fuck Nicky

Nicky is less attractive,less extroverted with her sexuality and has always lived in the sexual shadow of her sister.

That creates a need,a need to evolve

While Paris lies on her back thinking "oh my god this guy is like so lucky to be fucking me "

Nicky will be on your cock like a dog on a bone showing all the skills she has developed to compete . She will be fucking you to prove a point,she will be sucking you to show she is better than Paris.

As soon as someone is crying for attention there is a desire to please others, now i dont know about you but personally a desire to please your partner is what i look for in a bed buddy.

It relates back to the age old suggestion Porn girls have daddy issues.At the end of the day daddy issues are a cry for attention and acceptance mixed with some lashing out .

The most glorious combination i believe you can have in a sex partner is desire,anger,need for approval and some confidence they have learnt the skills

Think about porn and the girls that fuck the hardest,its rarely the most naturally gorgeous and popular.More ugly pornstars do gangbangs,bukkake and anal as a way to seperate from the crowd and win your affection.

Dont get me wrong there are people like Jesse Jane who is gorgeous and a fucking machine but from a numbers game point of view your best bet is with Plain Jane not Jesse

So next time your out and talking to a group of girls take a look at the middle of the bunch girl who looks a little over watching Queen Bee flirt with all the boys ,cause she is the one that will take you home and own you.Give the less obvious girls a chance its like the old phrase "fat girls need love too" same thing can be said for the quiet girl,the shy girl, the daggy girl,the nerd,the emo, the loser and the ugly sister.

If you play the numbers its inevitable you will get a few duds and obviously having sex with a stunning starfish is beter than an ugly one but as they say "you have to slay a few dragons to get to a princess"

Here is your challenge for this week:

Go to a bar and talk with a group of 4 or more girls

Let the STAR of the group seperate herself with her confidence and looks

Look at the other girls and try to read who resents the STAR the most

Strike a convo up with BITTER girl

If you strike up a relationship, make a move always feeding her need for attention but making her work for it

Be sure to make her feel liked and that you think she is the pick of the group and has been underappreciated

Take her home and get her in bed

Subtly hint that you want her to show you what she has sexually

As she starts to fuck you feed her small compliments but dont let her feel your 100% convinced

Sit back and get fucked harder than ever before as she makes her point

LONG LIVE THE UGLY DUCKLING

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The Doubles Debate

Why is MMF so exciting?

This is a question women ask me all the time,why would a guy want to share his woman with another bloke?

For me the answer runs deep but is pretty easy to understand.

Now before i start i just want to make it clear Male/Male/Female was never my idea of good odds,i would much rather be the centre of attention with 2 lovely ladies

However upon further thought the attraction became more clear.

It has many layers but i think the root of it comes back to visual stimulation and why porn is popular,people love watching other people fuck.

Now i can sit at home and jerk off to a video...hell i do that all the time!!

But to be in the room while a woman is getting fucked is like a live porn film and you get to participate

Think of it this way

If you turn on a normal porn film what do you see?

You see a girl get her pussy licked by a guy

A guy get a blowjob

A guy and girl fuck

Now thats great we all find it stimulating to watch so why not be in the room with them and have the mental stimulation of watching 2 people bang BUT also the physical stimulation of being a part of it?

From a sexual point of view taking away the relationship issue,tag teaming a woman is a rush for that very reason plus factor in the arousal you get from seeing her so pleasured,more so than what she would be from just one cock and all of a sudden your enveloped in a world of sex

For me personally i think its empowering to the woman too.

She is the centre of attention,she is getting twice the amount of pleasure and she is controlling the situation despite being outnumbered.

This is why i dont feel MMF is exploitive,i mean the woman isnt getting used she is getting ravaged in a way that is almost too sexually stimualting.

At the core of MMF is not only the combination of porn and actual sex but the connection men share with eachother.

Now i dont mean that in a gay way at all,but think about it.

Who do men share all their non sexual experiences with? Other men !!

Who do men like to show off to?Other men!!

Who do men have loyalty to over all else?Other men!!!

So the progression is natural,you share a beer,you share some stories,you share some pussy

It truely is a rush to have a girl blowing your buddy while you stick it to her i mean your happy that your buddy is having fun,your thrilled that she is in overload and you have your dick in a woman....what a great experience!!!

Now if you throw a marriage into the situation i cant comment cause im not married but by all accounts there is a forbidden rush from seeing your wife get plowed and a guilty pleasure  seeing someone help you pleasure her in ways you are not capable of alone.

The gaming world has createx xbox kinect and Wii to make gaming interactive,disneyworld uses a mix of visual,physical and audible arousal to create their new thrill rides and to me a MMF is the male version of interactive porography.

The big adult studios have tried to make porn interactive via alternate endings ,webcam where you can instruct the girl and selling sex toys to use while watching the films but nothing is like watching 2 people fuck and being the 3rd person and living the experience whilst watching it.

As i always say the mental element of sex is often overlooked but again is this case the combination of sight,sound,touch ,smell and mental stimulation are all combined to make something, that on the surface seems weird,very very exciting

I wonttouch on FFM cause we all know guys just love women ,more women are bi curious and the more the merrier so its pretty self explanatory but i hope now you can understand the allure of the spit roast,the draw of the tag team and the rush of the devils threesome!

Im out till next time
Keep it sleezy but stylish
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The Michael Hutchins Mystery

Sex and Anger

Is sex directly connected to anger?

Does that contradict sex and love?

These are two questions that have plagued me for a long time.I personally love hard,rough sex but i do not like bondage or sexual acts that involve pain yet there is definately an agressive undertone to most things in the sexual realm

"I wanna smash her"

"I'd like to hit that"

You hear things like this every day,particualry when you are a guy and at that point no contact has even been made.

My arguement is sex is impulsive,passionate,pyshical and there is a frustration that builds before it happens,these are all factors that are  common with agression

When i get rough with a woman i dont want to hurt her,in fact its the opposite.Im hoping to pleasure her but it just seems the release that comes with being rough and the pyshical stimulation that comes with going faster urge me to be somewhat violent.

The dialogue of sex is always aggressive too!

How often do you hear a woman that rarely swears become a potty mouth when she has a dick inside her....all the time

Phrases like "fuck me harder", "Smash my little pussy" and "pound me" are common place in most peoples 21st century sex lives.

I have always been of the belief that sex that is forbidden is more arousing and i think this ties back to aggression.

You know you shouldnt be doing it and you know she shouldnt either so you smash her a little harder cause she is being bad.Plus inhibitions go out the window,she isnt the mother of your kids or the love of your life so telling her you are gonna fuck the shit out of her comes easier.....its not like you have to sit and have breakfast with her in the moring.

Some women like the aggression....the others love it!!!!

I am yet to get in bed with a woman and have her tel me to stop doing her hard cause she wants me to be polite.The surge of adrenaline you get puts you in a frame of mind that makes you combative,as i have bloggeed about previously this is the athlete syndrome.Athletes are killers on the field when adrenaline is flowing and can be quite gentle when they are in their normal state.

For men there is always an underlying resentment to how hard it is to get sex,men feel the ball is in the womans court at all times so when a vagina is made available men click into flight mode and things get nasty quickly.

This brings me to a topic i love , a topic that the porn world has exploited to the profit of billions.

Sex with people you dont like and sex that at first is one sided.

Now when i say one sided i do not mean rape,i personally feel rape is the lowest act and all rapists should get the chair 

I am talking about the scenes where the guy or girl are reluctant for whatever reason and the other party seduces them till they loosen up and next thing you know they are pounding the hell out of one another.

The new fad with sites like Pornstar Punishment is the idea a man can use sex to punish a woman but as the session continues the woman decides she likes it and gives him the fuck of a lifetime.Its that mix of power and aggression that leads to unbridaled carnal sex.

Case in point ,one of my ex girlfriends had a best friend who always flirted with me and my girlfriend hated it.Now i was not attracted to this girl in the slightest and due in large to the fact i showed that she was often a pain in the arse and spoke badly of me.

Now i will tell you right now i have masturbated and blown like a volcano on so many occasions about the idea of smashing the fuck out of her.

As i am writing this its giving me a hard on

The fantasy always plays out as follows.

I am with my girlfriend and we have a fight,her friend tries to exploit the opportunity by flirting and it annoys the shit out of me.

I take her to a quiet place and tell her "shut your mouth before i put my cock in it"

Next thing you know im violently face fucking her to shut her up and taking out all the aggressions i have built towards her.

When that isnt fun anymore i tell her she is gonna get what she has been waiting for and i rip her pants off and fuck the living hell out of her pussy.What a rush for me! I am pyshically dominating this girl whom i have wanted to punch in the face for years but cant yet my cock is having a great time

I have no respect for her cause she is a bitch and she is happy to be fucking her best friends boyfriend so im rough and uninhibited as i do things to her i would not do to the love of my life.

As soon as i finish i walk away with no interest in how she feels and no remorse cause she is a whore.

It sounds weird but damn what a rush.

The funny thing about this fantasy is you are giving her what she wants yet you feel like you have punished her.

The balance is there cause women like to feel they can make you lose control and many girls ...espcecially the ones with daddy issues .......get a rush off being used and submissive.

Both parties feel kind of guilty and at the same time satisfied.

Now i dont know when that line blurs and bondage,torture and domination become the next level of attraction but i can see the natural progression despite the fact personally it doesnt appeal.

So where does that leave love?

Good question

We all know sex in a marriage is often stale!

Role play can be used and why do we do that?

Its just an excuse to treat your partner like someone else so you can release the shackles and be more forward and aggressive.

Its like most of my discussions i think you need to decide between better sex or love!!!!

There are many things you get from a loving relationship that sex cannot compete with but if your a highly sexual person love cannot offer you the limitless ,guilt free,passionate and often aggressive rush of carnal sex.

You decide

The Blue Collar Aristocrat

The Eddie Murphy Ideology

So i was at a bar the other night talking to one of my closest buddies and like usual we were talking about sex and our latest conquests.

Now the last fortnight has been good to the Blue Collar Aristocrat, without details the hook up count is at 7 and the hit it and quit it count is at 4.

This led my friend to ask the question "Does the strange beat exploring the depths of sex with your girlfriend"

If you look at this closer it becomes an intriguing question cause from all accounts that i have got, a one nighter is rarely as exploritory and physically stimulating as banging someone who knows what pushes your buttons . But how can the same piece of ass give you the rush you get from getting to enter something new?

My answer is simple,if sex is purely physical for you then get a girlfreind and fuck her in every way you can and practise a routine till you get to the point where you rock eachothers world.

If sex is also about a challenege and that initail rush then you need to go out and hunt down something new and savor that moment.

Me, im a hunt and savor guy! Nothing feels better than looking down at a girl you just met and seeing her look up at you then closing your eyes and feeling your dick go in her mouth for the first time.

I can forego the long term quality of the blowjob for the rush of that moment plus i figure if i bring my A game i can always fuck the girl good enough to have a great time whilst getting that surge of excitement from her being a conquest.

I watched my buddies expression as i told him this and by what i could see i was convinced he disagreed.

Then he threw me a curve ball

His reply made me think long and hard about life,love,loyalty and relationships

See my friend suggested the best way to be emotionally and sexually satisfied is to be in a relationship and cheat!!!!!

Now im a lot of things but i have never cheated on a woman i have been in a serious relationship with but it did cast my mind back to atime when i guess what i did was technically cheat

It was a while back and for this part of the story you will get details.I was dating a younger girl....i was 29 she was 19 and she was a hot piece of ass.Sadly she was inexperienced in bed and the sex wasnt great

Now we had gone on about 10 dates and spent a fair bit of time together but not made anything official . One night she cancelled on going out with me and i had been chatting with this other girl online so i decided to invite her over.

This girl came over for a drink and within 5 minutes we were fooling around and i can clearly remember the second she put my cock in her mouth the first thing i thought of was my "girlfriend" and i nearly blew then and there

See the rush of hitting some new ass was magnified so much by the rush of being bad and the feeling of doing something you shouldnt.

It brought out a naughty side in me and we got right into it,she blew me,i ate her out,she rode me i drilled her,she pinched me, i slapped her

I was so wound up i remember kneeling behind her and feeling like drilling her thru my wall.I had no attachment to this girl,she was less attractive than my "girlfrfiend" but i was ripping into her like a man possesed

What a stimulant cheating was!!!!

As i kicked this girl out,her makeup running,red faced and having just had me finish inside her my phone rang and it was my "girlfriend"

I started talking to her and i motioned to my booty call to come back

With that i could tell it turned the booty call on beijng "the other girl" and she unzipped my pants.Next thing you know im planning to meet my "girlfriend" on the phone while this stranger sucks me like my penis has the antidote.

Being a guy who rarely finishes from oral sex i was surprised to unload in her mouth within a few minutes.AS i hung up the phone my booty call said "thanx for a fun night think of me when you screw her " and walked off

I felt like i was in an episode of Cheaters

That night i eventually did meet up with my "girlfriend" and she gave me a blowjob in the back of my truck and you know what?

I did think about the booty call girl !!!!!!!

And the blowjob felt better as i pulled my "girlfriend" hair and taunghted her in my head knowing she was the second girl that night to blow me

As i write this i feel like a sleeze and would like to think i would not do that again but you know what my buddy is right ,the best sex you can have is "cheating on your girl sex" and the bonus of it is you go home and get that "i know how to push your buttons sex" off your girl

I feel stale with banging strangers at this point and am considering dating someone just so i can cheat on them.

Lots of girls like being the chick you use to cheat on your girl , it makes them feel like they are better than your girlfriend and it is a rush to be the cheater

Like all great experiences it has its flaws ,the main one being hurting a person you care for and also seeing how willing people are to cheat only makes you less trusting when you fall for that special someone.

So go forth and bed agirl behind your womans back,it will blow your mind BUt only take the journey if you can live with the consequences!

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Email with Up and Cumming Aussie Pornstar Bella Maree

Email Interview Bella Maree

Firstly Bella thanks for your time

So lets start at the beginning, what do you do currently, I notice your facebook has some gorgeous shots of you in not too much clothing?

I’m an Adult Entertainer in Adelaide, SA or as some people say Stripper lol. That explains the pics with very little clothing on ;)

I also visited your facebook (http://www.facebook.com/missbellamaree) and noticed you are considering a career in porn? Why and what appeals to you about it?

Hahaha considering......defiantly doing ;) I will be starting out this year with a couple of well known Australian companies making Girl/Girl porn. It is something that I have wanted to do since I got into the Adult Industry and as I’m bisexual it kind of made sense to do cheeky stuff with beautiful ladies.

Are you a really sexual person in your private life, does sex play a big part in your week?

Yes I am!! It doesn’t have to be intercourse but any kind of pleasure everyday of the week is fine with me ;)

Tell me your favourite sexual experience?

*It was actually a threesome with a couple around 2 years ago that I had NEVER met before. It was my first proper experience with a couple and I was so nervous!! I had no idea how I was going to pleasure 2 people at the same time and not leave anybody out. After a few drinks and a casual chat, we hit the spa and the magic happened. I can’t go into the whole story as they wouldn’t be very impressed if they found out I was sharing confidential things on the internet but, it was AMAZING!!!  

Size, Girth, Both or how you use it?

I’m a how you use it kind of girl ;) One piece of advice for all you guys out there.....don’t thrust like a jack rabbit all the time as it does NOTHING for us!! Learn to pleasure your girl like she deserves and stop being so fucking selfish.

Bad Boys, clean cut, sporty what grabs your eye first?

You need to look after yourself well but I go for what’s inside more than the outside. If your confident but not cocky, treat me like a princess and can put up with all the crazy shit I do without questioning it, you’re my kind of guy ;) This is exactly what my current man is like haha!!

Are guys intimidated by you when you are out on a Saturday night?

Well I work every weekend so it’s hard to answer that question but when I do get the chance to go out, they seem to be a little and I have no idea why.

If so what should they do, what’s the secret to picking up a sex bomb like yourself?

BE YOURSELF and don’t approach me when your rolling drunk because I won’t even acknowledge that your there!

Do you think sex with a stranger is hot?

It defiantly can be under the right circumstances ;)

Who do you fantasise about sexually?

I don’t actually fantasise over one particular person. It’s more like the situation that I’m in and what’s surrounding me. For example, I love bondage so thinking about being chained up but a bunch of ultra sexy women and being pleasure by them is more my type of thing ;)

How often do you masturbate and do you use toys?

I would have to say every other day that I’m not having sex lol and yes I use all sorts of toys, if I can be bothered reaching for the bottom draw.

Would you like to see a porn industry start up in Aus featuring home grown talent?

*There are already some of them around if you know where to look hahaha but yes, Australia needs a bigger Porn industry for sure.

Does Australia need more adult night spots and strip clubs and what should they offer?

Hmmmm I don’t think so. The reason why I say this is because when you actually work in the clubs and there are so many in the same city, it’s harder to make money. We only have 3 strip clubs here in Adelaide and from what I have heard, it’s still hard to make money some nights. I guess I look at it from a $$$ point of view though!

Would you go to a sex party?

HELL YES!!! These days I would watch the boys and play with girls though hehehe ;)

Is the USA too relaxed on sex or are Aus too uptight?

Australia is way too uptight!!! People in Oz need to relax and learn to go with it rather than worrying about the little things all the time.

You’re located in Aus, do you wish there were more opportunities down under for women in the adult industry?

Yes but it depends on how far you want to take your career in the porn industry! If you want to go all the way, get your butt over to the US I say ;) With saying this, it’s allot harder for men than women to actually get into the industry, so I wish they had more opportunities to work with.