Why is MMF so exciting?
This is a question women ask me all the time,why would a guy want to share his woman with another bloke?
For me the answer runs deep but is pretty easy to understand.
Now before i start i just want to make it clear Male/Male/Female was never my idea of good odds,i would much rather be the centre of attention with 2 lovely ladies
However upon further thought the attraction became more clear.
It has many layers but i think the root of it comes back to visual stimulation and why porn is popular,people love watching other people fuck.
Now i can sit at home and jerk off to a video...hell i do that all the time!!
But to be in the room while a woman is getting fucked is like a live porn film and you get to participate
Think of it this way
If you turn on a normal porn film what do you see?
You see a girl get her pussy licked by a guy
A guy get a blowjob
A guy and girl fuck
Now thats great we all find it stimulating to watch so why not be in the room with them and have the mental stimulation of watching 2 people bang BUT also the physical stimulation of being a part of it?
From a sexual point of view taking away the relationship issue,tag teaming a woman is a rush for that very reason plus factor in the arousal you get from seeing her so pleasured,more so than what she would be from just one cock and all of a sudden your enveloped in a world of sex
For me personally i think its empowering to the woman too.
She is the centre of attention,she is getting twice the amount of pleasure and she is controlling the situation despite being outnumbered.
This is why i dont feel MMF is exploitive,i mean the woman isnt getting used she is getting ravaged in a way that is almost too sexually stimualting.
At the core of MMF is not only the combination of porn and actual sex but the connection men share with eachother.
Now i dont mean that in a gay way at all,but think about it.
Who do men share all their non sexual experiences with? Other men !!
Who do men like to show off to?Other men!!
Who do men have loyalty to over all else?Other men!!!
So the progression is natural,you share a beer,you share some stories,you share some pussy
It truely is a rush to have a girl blowing your buddy while you stick it to her i mean your happy that your buddy is having fun,your thrilled that she is in overload and you have your dick in a woman....what a great experience!!!
Now if you throw a marriage into the situation i cant comment cause im not married but by all accounts there is a forbidden rush from seeing your wife get plowed and a guilty pleasure seeing someone help you pleasure her in ways you are not capable of alone.
The gaming world has createx xbox kinect and Wii to make gaming interactive,disneyworld uses a mix of visual,physical and audible arousal to create their new thrill rides and to me a MMF is the male version of interactive porography.
The big adult studios have tried to make porn interactive via alternate endings ,webcam where you can instruct the girl and selling sex toys to use while watching the films but nothing is like watching 2 people fuck and being the 3rd person and living the experience whilst watching it.
As i always say the mental element of sex is often overlooked but again is this case the combination of sight,sound,touch ,smell and mental stimulation are all combined to make something, that on the surface seems weird,very very exciting
I wonttouch on FFM cause we all know guys just love women ,more women are bi curious and the more the merrier so its pretty self explanatory but i hope now you can understand the allure of the spit roast,the draw of the tag team and the rush of the devils threesome!
Im out till next time
Keep it sleezy but stylish
THE BCA
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Monday, February 20, 2012
Monday, February 06, 2012
The Michael Hutchins Mystery
Sex and Anger
Is sex directly connected to anger?
Does that contradict sex and love?
These are two questions that have plagued me for a long time.I personally love hard,rough sex but i do not like bondage or sexual acts that involve pain yet there is definately an agressive undertone to most things in the sexual realm
"I wanna smash her"
"I'd like to hit that"
You hear things like this every day,particualry when you are a guy and at that point no contact has even been made.
My arguement is sex is impulsive,passionate,pyshical and there is a frustration that builds before it happens,these are all factors that are common with agression
When i get rough with a woman i dont want to hurt her,in fact its the opposite.Im hoping to pleasure her but it just seems the release that comes with being rough and the pyshical stimulation that comes with going faster urge me to be somewhat violent.
The dialogue of sex is always aggressive too!
How often do you hear a woman that rarely swears become a potty mouth when she has a dick inside her....all the time
Phrases like "fuck me harder", "Smash my little pussy" and "pound me" are common place in most peoples 21st century sex lives.
I have always been of the belief that sex that is forbidden is more arousing and i think this ties back to aggression.
You know you shouldnt be doing it and you know she shouldnt either so you smash her a little harder cause she is being bad.Plus inhibitions go out the window,she isnt the mother of your kids or the love of your life so telling her you are gonna fuck the shit out of her comes easier.....its not like you have to sit and have breakfast with her in the moring.
Some women like the aggression....the others love it!!!!
I am yet to get in bed with a woman and have her tel me to stop doing her hard cause she wants me to be polite.The surge of adrenaline you get puts you in a frame of mind that makes you combative,as i have bloggeed about previously this is the athlete syndrome.Athletes are killers on the field when adrenaline is flowing and can be quite gentle when they are in their normal state.
For men there is always an underlying resentment to how hard it is to get sex,men feel the ball is in the womans court at all times so when a vagina is made available men click into flight mode and things get nasty quickly.
This brings me to a topic i love , a topic that the porn world has exploited to the profit of billions.
Sex with people you dont like and sex that at first is one sided.
Now when i say one sided i do not mean rape,i personally feel rape is the lowest act and all rapists should get the chair
I am talking about the scenes where the guy or girl are reluctant for whatever reason and the other party seduces them till they loosen up and next thing you know they are pounding the hell out of one another.
The new fad with sites like Pornstar Punishment is the idea a man can use sex to punish a woman but as the session continues the woman decides she likes it and gives him the fuck of a lifetime.Its that mix of power and aggression that leads to unbridaled carnal sex.
Case in point ,one of my ex girlfriends had a best friend who always flirted with me and my girlfriend hated it.Now i was not attracted to this girl in the slightest and due in large to the fact i showed that she was often a pain in the arse and spoke badly of me.
Now i will tell you right now i have masturbated and blown like a volcano on so many occasions about the idea of smashing the fuck out of her.
As i am writing this its giving me a hard on
The fantasy always plays out as follows.
I am with my girlfriend and we have a fight,her friend tries to exploit the opportunity by flirting and it annoys the shit out of me.
I take her to a quiet place and tell her "shut your mouth before i put my cock in it"
Next thing you know im violently face fucking her to shut her up and taking out all the aggressions i have built towards her.
When that isnt fun anymore i tell her she is gonna get what she has been waiting for and i rip her pants off and fuck the living hell out of her pussy.What a rush for me! I am pyshically dominating this girl whom i have wanted to punch in the face for years but cant yet my cock is having a great time
I have no respect for her cause she is a bitch and she is happy to be fucking her best friends boyfriend so im rough and uninhibited as i do things to her i would not do to the love of my life.
As soon as i finish i walk away with no interest in how she feels and no remorse cause she is a whore.
It sounds weird but damn what a rush.
The funny thing about this fantasy is you are giving her what she wants yet you feel like you have punished her.
The balance is there cause women like to feel they can make you lose control and many girls ...espcecially the ones with daddy issues .......get a rush off being used and submissive.
Both parties feel kind of guilty and at the same time satisfied.
Now i dont know when that line blurs and bondage,torture and domination become the next level of attraction but i can see the natural progression despite the fact personally it doesnt appeal.
So where does that leave love?
Good question
We all know sex in a marriage is often stale!
Role play can be used and why do we do that?
Its just an excuse to treat your partner like someone else so you can release the shackles and be more forward and aggressive.
Its like most of my discussions i think you need to decide between better sex or love!!!!
There are many things you get from a loving relationship that sex cannot compete with but if your a highly sexual person love cannot offer you the limitless ,guilt free,passionate and often aggressive rush of carnal sex.
You decide
The Blue Collar Aristocrat
Is sex directly connected to anger?
Does that contradict sex and love?
These are two questions that have plagued me for a long time.I personally love hard,rough sex but i do not like bondage or sexual acts that involve pain yet there is definately an agressive undertone to most things in the sexual realm
"I wanna smash her"
"I'd like to hit that"
You hear things like this every day,particualry when you are a guy and at that point no contact has even been made.
My arguement is sex is impulsive,passionate,pyshical and there is a frustration that builds before it happens,these are all factors that are common with agression
When i get rough with a woman i dont want to hurt her,in fact its the opposite.Im hoping to pleasure her but it just seems the release that comes with being rough and the pyshical stimulation that comes with going faster urge me to be somewhat violent.
The dialogue of sex is always aggressive too!
How often do you hear a woman that rarely swears become a potty mouth when she has a dick inside her....all the time
Phrases like "fuck me harder", "Smash my little pussy" and "pound me" are common place in most peoples 21st century sex lives.
I have always been of the belief that sex that is forbidden is more arousing and i think this ties back to aggression.
You know you shouldnt be doing it and you know she shouldnt either so you smash her a little harder cause she is being bad.Plus inhibitions go out the window,she isnt the mother of your kids or the love of your life so telling her you are gonna fuck the shit out of her comes easier.....its not like you have to sit and have breakfast with her in the moring.
Some women like the aggression....the others love it!!!!
I am yet to get in bed with a woman and have her tel me to stop doing her hard cause she wants me to be polite.The surge of adrenaline you get puts you in a frame of mind that makes you combative,as i have bloggeed about previously this is the athlete syndrome.Athletes are killers on the field when adrenaline is flowing and can be quite gentle when they are in their normal state.
For men there is always an underlying resentment to how hard it is to get sex,men feel the ball is in the womans court at all times so when a vagina is made available men click into flight mode and things get nasty quickly.
This brings me to a topic i love , a topic that the porn world has exploited to the profit of billions.
Sex with people you dont like and sex that at first is one sided.
Now when i say one sided i do not mean rape,i personally feel rape is the lowest act and all rapists should get the chair
I am talking about the scenes where the guy or girl are reluctant for whatever reason and the other party seduces them till they loosen up and next thing you know they are pounding the hell out of one another.
The new fad with sites like Pornstar Punishment is the idea a man can use sex to punish a woman but as the session continues the woman decides she likes it and gives him the fuck of a lifetime.Its that mix of power and aggression that leads to unbridaled carnal sex.
Case in point ,one of my ex girlfriends had a best friend who always flirted with me and my girlfriend hated it.Now i was not attracted to this girl in the slightest and due in large to the fact i showed that she was often a pain in the arse and spoke badly of me.
Now i will tell you right now i have masturbated and blown like a volcano on so many occasions about the idea of smashing the fuck out of her.
As i am writing this its giving me a hard on
The fantasy always plays out as follows.
I am with my girlfriend and we have a fight,her friend tries to exploit the opportunity by flirting and it annoys the shit out of me.
I take her to a quiet place and tell her "shut your mouth before i put my cock in it"
Next thing you know im violently face fucking her to shut her up and taking out all the aggressions i have built towards her.
When that isnt fun anymore i tell her she is gonna get what she has been waiting for and i rip her pants off and fuck the living hell out of her pussy.What a rush for me! I am pyshically dominating this girl whom i have wanted to punch in the face for years but cant yet my cock is having a great time
I have no respect for her cause she is a bitch and she is happy to be fucking her best friends boyfriend so im rough and uninhibited as i do things to her i would not do to the love of my life.
As soon as i finish i walk away with no interest in how she feels and no remorse cause she is a whore.
It sounds weird but damn what a rush.
The funny thing about this fantasy is you are giving her what she wants yet you feel like you have punished her.
The balance is there cause women like to feel they can make you lose control and many girls ...espcecially the ones with daddy issues .......get a rush off being used and submissive.
Both parties feel kind of guilty and at the same time satisfied.
Now i dont know when that line blurs and bondage,torture and domination become the next level of attraction but i can see the natural progression despite the fact personally it doesnt appeal.
So where does that leave love?
Good question
We all know sex in a marriage is often stale!
Role play can be used and why do we do that?
Its just an excuse to treat your partner like someone else so you can release the shackles and be more forward and aggressive.
Its like most of my discussions i think you need to decide between better sex or love!!!!
There are many things you get from a loving relationship that sex cannot compete with but if your a highly sexual person love cannot offer you the limitless ,guilt free,passionate and often aggressive rush of carnal sex.
You decide
The Blue Collar Aristocrat
Sunday, January 22, 2012
The Eddie Murphy Ideology
So i was at a bar the other night talking to one of my closest buddies and like usual we were talking about sex and our latest conquests.
Now the last fortnight has been good to the Blue Collar Aristocrat, without details the hook up count is at 7 and the hit it and quit it count is at 4.
This led my friend to ask the question "Does the strange beat exploring the depths of sex with your girlfriend"
If you look at this closer it becomes an intriguing question cause from all accounts that i have got, a one nighter is rarely as exploritory and physically stimulating as banging someone who knows what pushes your buttons . But how can the same piece of ass give you the rush you get from getting to enter something new?
My answer is simple,if sex is purely physical for you then get a girlfreind and fuck her in every way you can and practise a routine till you get to the point where you rock eachothers world.
If sex is also about a challenege and that initail rush then you need to go out and hunt down something new and savor that moment.
Me, im a hunt and savor guy! Nothing feels better than looking down at a girl you just met and seeing her look up at you then closing your eyes and feeling your dick go in her mouth for the first time.
I can forego the long term quality of the blowjob for the rush of that moment plus i figure if i bring my A game i can always fuck the girl good enough to have a great time whilst getting that surge of excitement from her being a conquest.
I watched my buddies expression as i told him this and by what i could see i was convinced he disagreed.
Then he threw me a curve ball
His reply made me think long and hard about life,love,loyalty and relationships
See my friend suggested the best way to be emotionally and sexually satisfied is to be in a relationship and cheat!!!!!
Now im a lot of things but i have never cheated on a woman i have been in a serious relationship with but it did cast my mind back to atime when i guess what i did was technically cheat
It was a while back and for this part of the story you will get details.I was dating a younger girl....i was 29 she was 19 and she was a hot piece of ass.Sadly she was inexperienced in bed and the sex wasnt great
Now we had gone on about 10 dates and spent a fair bit of time together but not made anything official . One night she cancelled on going out with me and i had been chatting with this other girl online so i decided to invite her over.
This girl came over for a drink and within 5 minutes we were fooling around and i can clearly remember the second she put my cock in her mouth the first thing i thought of was my "girlfriend" and i nearly blew then and there
See the rush of hitting some new ass was magnified so much by the rush of being bad and the feeling of doing something you shouldnt.
It brought out a naughty side in me and we got right into it,she blew me,i ate her out,she rode me i drilled her,she pinched me, i slapped her
I was so wound up i remember kneeling behind her and feeling like drilling her thru my wall.I had no attachment to this girl,she was less attractive than my "girlfrfiend" but i was ripping into her like a man possesed
What a stimulant cheating was!!!!
As i kicked this girl out,her makeup running,red faced and having just had me finish inside her my phone rang and it was my "girlfriend"
I started talking to her and i motioned to my booty call to come back
With that i could tell it turned the booty call on beijng "the other girl" and she unzipped my pants.Next thing you know im planning to meet my "girlfriend" on the phone while this stranger sucks me like my penis has the antidote.
Being a guy who rarely finishes from oral sex i was surprised to unload in her mouth within a few minutes.AS i hung up the phone my booty call said "thanx for a fun night think of me when you screw her " and walked off
I felt like i was in an episode of Cheaters
That night i eventually did meet up with my "girlfriend" and she gave me a blowjob in the back of my truck and you know what?
I did think about the booty call girl !!!!!!!
And the blowjob felt better as i pulled my "girlfriend" hair and taunghted her in my head knowing she was the second girl that night to blow me
As i write this i feel like a sleeze and would like to think i would not do that again but you know what my buddy is right ,the best sex you can have is "cheating on your girl sex" and the bonus of it is you go home and get that "i know how to push your buttons sex" off your girl
I feel stale with banging strangers at this point and am considering dating someone just so i can cheat on them.
Lots of girls like being the chick you use to cheat on your girl , it makes them feel like they are better than your girlfriend and it is a rush to be the cheater
Like all great experiences it has its flaws ,the main one being hurting a person you care for and also seeing how willing people are to cheat only makes you less trusting when you fall for that special someone.
So go forth and bed agirl behind your womans back,it will blow your mind BUt only take the journey if you can live with the consequences!
The BCA
Now the last fortnight has been good to the Blue Collar Aristocrat, without details the hook up count is at 7 and the hit it and quit it count is at 4.
This led my friend to ask the question "Does the strange beat exploring the depths of sex with your girlfriend"
If you look at this closer it becomes an intriguing question cause from all accounts that i have got, a one nighter is rarely as exploritory and physically stimulating as banging someone who knows what pushes your buttons . But how can the same piece of ass give you the rush you get from getting to enter something new?
My answer is simple,if sex is purely physical for you then get a girlfreind and fuck her in every way you can and practise a routine till you get to the point where you rock eachothers world.
If sex is also about a challenege and that initail rush then you need to go out and hunt down something new and savor that moment.
Me, im a hunt and savor guy! Nothing feels better than looking down at a girl you just met and seeing her look up at you then closing your eyes and feeling your dick go in her mouth for the first time.
I can forego the long term quality of the blowjob for the rush of that moment plus i figure if i bring my A game i can always fuck the girl good enough to have a great time whilst getting that surge of excitement from her being a conquest.
I watched my buddies expression as i told him this and by what i could see i was convinced he disagreed.
Then he threw me a curve ball
His reply made me think long and hard about life,love,loyalty and relationships
See my friend suggested the best way to be emotionally and sexually satisfied is to be in a relationship and cheat!!!!!
Now im a lot of things but i have never cheated on a woman i have been in a serious relationship with but it did cast my mind back to atime when i guess what i did was technically cheat
It was a while back and for this part of the story you will get details.I was dating a younger girl....i was 29 she was 19 and she was a hot piece of ass.Sadly she was inexperienced in bed and the sex wasnt great
Now we had gone on about 10 dates and spent a fair bit of time together but not made anything official . One night she cancelled on going out with me and i had been chatting with this other girl online so i decided to invite her over.
This girl came over for a drink and within 5 minutes we were fooling around and i can clearly remember the second she put my cock in her mouth the first thing i thought of was my "girlfriend" and i nearly blew then and there
See the rush of hitting some new ass was magnified so much by the rush of being bad and the feeling of doing something you shouldnt.
It brought out a naughty side in me and we got right into it,she blew me,i ate her out,she rode me i drilled her,she pinched me, i slapped her
I was so wound up i remember kneeling behind her and feeling like drilling her thru my wall.I had no attachment to this girl,she was less attractive than my "girlfrfiend" but i was ripping into her like a man possesed
What a stimulant cheating was!!!!
As i kicked this girl out,her makeup running,red faced and having just had me finish inside her my phone rang and it was my "girlfriend"
I started talking to her and i motioned to my booty call to come back
With that i could tell it turned the booty call on beijng "the other girl" and she unzipped my pants.Next thing you know im planning to meet my "girlfriend" on the phone while this stranger sucks me like my penis has the antidote.
Being a guy who rarely finishes from oral sex i was surprised to unload in her mouth within a few minutes.AS i hung up the phone my booty call said "thanx for a fun night think of me when you screw her " and walked off
I felt like i was in an episode of Cheaters
That night i eventually did meet up with my "girlfriend" and she gave me a blowjob in the back of my truck and you know what?
I did think about the booty call girl !!!!!!!
And the blowjob felt better as i pulled my "girlfriend" hair and taunghted her in my head knowing she was the second girl that night to blow me
As i write this i feel like a sleeze and would like to think i would not do that again but you know what my buddy is right ,the best sex you can have is "cheating on your girl sex" and the bonus of it is you go home and get that "i know how to push your buttons sex" off your girl
I feel stale with banging strangers at this point and am considering dating someone just so i can cheat on them.
Lots of girls like being the chick you use to cheat on your girl , it makes them feel like they are better than your girlfriend and it is a rush to be the cheater
Like all great experiences it has its flaws ,the main one being hurting a person you care for and also seeing how willing people are to cheat only makes you less trusting when you fall for that special someone.
So go forth and bed agirl behind your womans back,it will blow your mind BUt only take the journey if you can live with the consequences!
The BCA
Sunday, January 15, 2012
Email with Up and Cumming Aussie Pornstar Bella Maree
Email Interview Bella Maree
Firstly Bella thanks for your time
So lets start at the beginning, what do you do currently, I
notice your facebook has some gorgeous shots of you in not too much clothing?
I’m an Adult Entertainer in Adelaide, SA or as some people
say Stripper lol. That explains the pics with very little clothing on ;)
I also visited your facebook (http://www.facebook.com/missbellamaree)
and noticed you are considering a career in porn? Why and what appeals to you
about it?
Hahaha considering......defiantly doing ;) I will be
starting out this year with a couple of well known Australian companies making
Girl/Girl porn. It is something that I have wanted to do since I got into the
Adult Industry and as I’m bisexual it kind of made sense to do cheeky stuff
with beautiful ladies.
Are you a really sexual person in your private life, does
sex play a big part in your week?
Yes I am!! It doesn’t have to be intercourse but any kind
of pleasure everyday of the week is fine with me ;)
Tell me your favourite sexual experience?
*It was actually a threesome with a couple around 2 years
ago that I had NEVER met before. It was my first proper experience with a
couple and I was so nervous!! I had no idea how I was going to pleasure 2
people at the same time and not leave anybody out. After a few drinks and a
casual chat, we hit the spa and the magic happened. I can’t go into the whole
story as they wouldn’t be very impressed if they found out I was sharing
confidential things on the internet but, it was AMAZING!!!
Size, Girth, Both or how you use it?
I’m a how you use it kind of girl ;) One piece of advice
for all you guys out there.....don’t thrust like a jack rabbit all the time as
it does NOTHING for us!! Learn to pleasure your girl like she deserves and stop
being so fucking selfish.
Bad Boys, clean cut, sporty what grabs your eye first?
You need to look after yourself well but I go for what’s
inside more than the outside. If your confident but not cocky, treat me like a
princess and can put up with all the crazy shit I do without questioning it, you’re
my kind of guy ;) This is exactly what my current man is like haha!!
Are guys intimidated by you when you are out on a Saturday
night?
Well I work every weekend so it’s hard to answer that
question but when I do get the chance to go out, they seem to be a little and I
have no idea why.
If so what should they do, what’s the secret to picking up a
sex bomb like yourself?
BE YOURSELF and don’t approach me when your rolling drunk
because I won’t even acknowledge that your there!
Do you think sex with a stranger is hot?
It defiantly can be under the right circumstances ;)
Who do you fantasise about sexually?
I don’t actually fantasise over one particular person. It’s
more like the situation that I’m in and what’s surrounding me. For example, I
love bondage so thinking about being chained up but a bunch of ultra sexy women
and being pleasure by them is more my type of thing ;)
How often do you masturbate and do you use toys?
I would have to say every other day that I’m not having sex
lol and yes I use all sorts of toys, if I can be bothered reaching for the
bottom draw.
Would you like to see a porn industry start up in Aus
featuring home grown talent?
*There are already some of them around if you know where to
look hahaha but yes, Australia needs a bigger Porn industry for sure.
Does Australia need more adult night spots and strip clubs and
what should they offer?
Hmmmm I don’t think so. The reason why I say this is
because when you actually work in the clubs and there are so many in the same
city, it’s harder to make money. We only have 3 strip clubs here in Adelaide
and from what I have heard, it’s still hard to make money some nights. I guess
I look at it from a $$$ point of view though!
Would you go to a sex party?
HELL YES!!! These days I would watch the boys and play with
girls though hehehe ;)
Is the USA too relaxed on sex or are Aus too uptight?
Australia is way too uptight!!! People in Oz need to relax
and learn to go with it rather than worrying about the little things all the
time.
You’re located in Aus, do you wish there were more
opportunities down under for women in the adult industry?
Yes but it depends on how far you want to take your career
in the porn industry! If you want to go all the way, get your butt over to the
US I say ;) With saying this, it’s allot harder for men than women to actually
get into the industry, so I wish they had more opportunities to work with.
Sunday, December 04, 2011
Tuesday, November 29, 2011
Fake Boobs Means She is Trying....
The Pamela Anderson Process
Well another day , another sex related conundrum.
You may be able to tell i am fascinated by sex,now i know that comment doesnt exactly make me stick out in a crowd but i feel my fascination runs further than most.
You see i am fascinated by the undertones,the emotions and the processes that lead people on different paths.
It sounds ridiculus to some but my first issue always centres around this theory that overtly sexual people must have bad parental relationships.
WHY?
I mean i like golf ,does that mean i hate my father and play to get attention?
I like football,does that mean my mom never cuddled me as a kid so i like being roughed up?
I also like cars,am i superfiscial?
No of course it doesnt,i play golf cause i like the walk,i like the surroundings,i feel exhilirated when i hit a nice shot not because Uncle Remis touched my special area
So why then is it wrong to love sex? I mean last time i checked it was physically built into our makeup that it feels great!
Why cant i want to grab a strange and attractive woman at a bar and take her to my car for a blowjob?
It no different than going past a golf course and thinking "wow that looks nice i should play there, that would make me happy"
To me sex is about the pursuit of happiness
Just like most of what we do its geared towards instant satifsfaction,our desire to be happy.
Now whats wrong with that?
Being a footballer is a more physically damaging way to please myself,the mental anguish that comes with golf is borderline self torture yet society loves someone who plays golf every day and judges someone who fucks every day.
This is the tip of the iceberg, comparing sex to sport as i did last week. It goes much deeper for example people who like dancing.
Dancing is like the little innocent sister to sex,it is similar in movement, involves 2+ people and often leads to sex but there are clubs everywhere, you cant go 5 minutes down a street in a city without seeing a club yet knowbodys Dad is saying go out and have fun just dont dance it immoral.Not unless you live in that town from Footloose in the 70s.
Now the counter arguement to "sex is just the pursuit of pleasure" is that it is intimate,that it leads to perversion and that people use it to hide their problems.
Well here is a news flash,you just described religion.
Now i have been to church and i believe in God but i also have a responsibility to try to be honest and last time i loooked a relationship with God was intimate,the Catholic church is rampant with perversion and religion is a great masking agent for your sins and problems.
Now i am not for one second saying sex is as good for you as religion nor am i saying that religion is bad, i personally think its great.But the point i am making is perception is what has made sex a taboo not so much what the outcomes or motives of sex are.
This brings me to todays topic......Plastic surgery
Some folks love it , some hate it.
I want you to take away 2 questions from this blog and give me some feedback in the comment section.
1.Does a boob job have a lot to do with how much you like sex and you promiscuity?
2.Is plastic surgery a person not being able to accept their flaws or merely a person trying to improve themself?
Here is what i think
Firstly i say good on anyone that gets plastic surgery, if thats what they want.If you do it for someone else or cause of a job thats a seperate issue but is there really any harm in pumping up your tits or filling out those lips?
I dont see the difference between the 5ft2 girl who looks 5ft5 in her heels compared to the C cup girl who looks like a D cup with her fake boobs....your both lying,just one is spending their money on shoes,the other on silicone
It comes back to perception, when a woman wears lipstick her lips arent naturally that red, her eyelashes only jump out at you because of makeup and her teeth look white cause Colgate created whitening!
Its all lies,its not natural but more importantly its just people trying to better themself and why shouldnt they. You only live once , your always trying to get a better job ,a better car, nicer clothes so why judge those who have fake boobs.
Its a sign these girls are trying and i personally find that a turn on,its much nicer than the slob who walks down the street making no attempt to be appealing .Show them to me girls i appreciate the effort you make to put a smile on my face when you walk past
The second issue comes down to sex, is a person with big fake hooters sluttier than the working mom with little bee stings....HELL NO
Some of the slutties people on Gods earth look from the outside like librarians
Maybe you could argue Miss Big Boobs wants more people to look at her but as i have mentioned most people want a nice car so you can cruise down Rodeo Dr looking like a tool...its no different. Jessica Jaymes or a Ferrari, i know which one i would rather ride.
I personally think the girl with the fake boobs may have self esteem issues and need the attention or she may just like big boobs.The girl with the pouty lips might have not got on with her father or she just might want big lips to make her feel sexy .
Sometimes it works,sometimes it doesnt.3 names from the adult industry jump out to me Lexi Diamond, Riley Steele and Nicole Aniston.They all started with small boobs and people still liked watching them fuck but now they have big fake tit and from a personal standpoint i am glad that happened but i know some freinds who disagree but at the end of the day its their call and they live with the consequences so dont judge
So next time you see a woman with huge fake ones dont immediately assume she is a whore or that she has daddy issues and remember even if she is a whore is that so bad its just like playing golf,you buy the best available equipment and get out there and have fun
The Blue Collar Aristocrat
P.S Any fake breasted women who love me defending them in this post feel free to contact me i love big boobs ;)
Well another day , another sex related conundrum.
You may be able to tell i am fascinated by sex,now i know that comment doesnt exactly make me stick out in a crowd but i feel my fascination runs further than most.
You see i am fascinated by the undertones,the emotions and the processes that lead people on different paths.
It sounds ridiculus to some but my first issue always centres around this theory that overtly sexual people must have bad parental relationships.
WHY?
I mean i like golf ,does that mean i hate my father and play to get attention?
I like football,does that mean my mom never cuddled me as a kid so i like being roughed up?
I also like cars,am i superfiscial?
No of course it doesnt,i play golf cause i like the walk,i like the surroundings,i feel exhilirated when i hit a nice shot not because Uncle Remis touched my special area
So why then is it wrong to love sex? I mean last time i checked it was physically built into our makeup that it feels great!
Why cant i want to grab a strange and attractive woman at a bar and take her to my car for a blowjob?
It no different than going past a golf course and thinking "wow that looks nice i should play there, that would make me happy"
To me sex is about the pursuit of happiness
Just like most of what we do its geared towards instant satifsfaction,our desire to be happy.
Now whats wrong with that?
Being a footballer is a more physically damaging way to please myself,the mental anguish that comes with golf is borderline self torture yet society loves someone who plays golf every day and judges someone who fucks every day.
This is the tip of the iceberg, comparing sex to sport as i did last week. It goes much deeper for example people who like dancing.
Dancing is like the little innocent sister to sex,it is similar in movement, involves 2+ people and often leads to sex but there are clubs everywhere, you cant go 5 minutes down a street in a city without seeing a club yet knowbodys Dad is saying go out and have fun just dont dance it immoral.Not unless you live in that town from Footloose in the 70s.
Now the counter arguement to "sex is just the pursuit of pleasure" is that it is intimate,that it leads to perversion and that people use it to hide their problems.
Well here is a news flash,you just described religion.
Now i have been to church and i believe in God but i also have a responsibility to try to be honest and last time i loooked a relationship with God was intimate,the Catholic church is rampant with perversion and religion is a great masking agent for your sins and problems.
Now i am not for one second saying sex is as good for you as religion nor am i saying that religion is bad, i personally think its great.But the point i am making is perception is what has made sex a taboo not so much what the outcomes or motives of sex are.
This brings me to todays topic......Plastic surgery
Some folks love it , some hate it.
I want you to take away 2 questions from this blog and give me some feedback in the comment section.
1.Does a boob job have a lot to do with how much you like sex and you promiscuity?
2.Is plastic surgery a person not being able to accept their flaws or merely a person trying to improve themself?
Here is what i think
Firstly i say good on anyone that gets plastic surgery, if thats what they want.If you do it for someone else or cause of a job thats a seperate issue but is there really any harm in pumping up your tits or filling out those lips?
I dont see the difference between the 5ft2 girl who looks 5ft5 in her heels compared to the C cup girl who looks like a D cup with her fake boobs....your both lying,just one is spending their money on shoes,the other on silicone
It comes back to perception, when a woman wears lipstick her lips arent naturally that red, her eyelashes only jump out at you because of makeup and her teeth look white cause Colgate created whitening!
Its all lies,its not natural but more importantly its just people trying to better themself and why shouldnt they. You only live once , your always trying to get a better job ,a better car, nicer clothes so why judge those who have fake boobs.
Its a sign these girls are trying and i personally find that a turn on,its much nicer than the slob who walks down the street making no attempt to be appealing .Show them to me girls i appreciate the effort you make to put a smile on my face when you walk past
The second issue comes down to sex, is a person with big fake hooters sluttier than the working mom with little bee stings....HELL NO
Some of the slutties people on Gods earth look from the outside like librarians
Maybe you could argue Miss Big Boobs wants more people to look at her but as i have mentioned most people want a nice car so you can cruise down Rodeo Dr looking like a tool...its no different. Jessica Jaymes or a Ferrari, i know which one i would rather ride.
I personally think the girl with the fake boobs may have self esteem issues and need the attention or she may just like big boobs.The girl with the pouty lips might have not got on with her father or she just might want big lips to make her feel sexy .
Sometimes it works,sometimes it doesnt.3 names from the adult industry jump out to me Lexi Diamond, Riley Steele and Nicole Aniston.They all started with small boobs and people still liked watching them fuck but now they have big fake tit and from a personal standpoint i am glad that happened but i know some freinds who disagree but at the end of the day its their call and they live with the consequences so dont judge
So next time you see a woman with huge fake ones dont immediately assume she is a whore or that she has daddy issues and remember even if she is a whore is that so bad its just like playing golf,you buy the best available equipment and get out there and have fun
The Blue Collar Aristocrat
P.S Any fake breasted women who love me defending them in this post feel free to contact me i love big boobs ;)
Sunday, November 20, 2011
Sex, Pornstars and Athletes , it just seems right!!!!
The Tiger Woods Debate-
Sex, Pornstars and Athletes , it just seems right!!!!
So lets start this blog with one of my trademark sweeping
generalizations and random observations.
The world wants to bundle sex and sports together!
We know this thru advertising, marketing and just the
overwhelming desire for the Average Joe to use sports analogies to describe
sex.
Further to my point ask yourself this why is sex 3rd
base? Why do men brag about bring their “A game” to the bedroom? The answer to
me is reasonably clear
Its starts with demographics, who is the biggest sports
watching audience…..MEN ! Now ask yourself who spends the most time thinking
about sex….MEN! So that’s the first link in the chain
So moving from the intellectual realm of the connection the
next thing you notice is physical, you need to be in good shape to be a great
athlete and you need to be in good shape to get lots of sex. Now before you
tell me that you can have the moves to pick up and be out of shape my reply to
that is Brett Favre, yeah you heard me Brett Favre.
See as valid as that point is , just like there is the
occasional “player” that picks up despite his physical condition ,there are
some sports people who succeed despite physical weaknesses like our old ,grey,
slow friend Brett Favre. But its fair to say better body means better chance
There is link number 2…….physical condition
Next comes the link more specifically to Pornstars and
Athletes
If I was to tell you my job involved being fit, lots of
travel, getting roughed up, people watching me perform a physical activity for
their entertainment, uniforms, performance enhancing drugs, large
disproportionate sums of money and a short career time span you could easily
think I was an NFL player but if you look deeper I could be telling you I’m a Pornstar.
The 2 careers involve similar skill sets, similar personality traits and similar
physical and mental tools.
Derek Jeter practices swinging the bat so when everyone is watching
he knows how to perform the action, Kayden Kross practices blowjobs for the
same reason and they are both motor skills
Ray Lewis hits the gym so his thighs are ready to hand out a
smashing when he launches at a running back, Riley Steele does squats so she
can squat up and down on a guy while the camera roles and deliver her own kind
of smashing.
Then we look at the mental side of the 2,what is harder
hitting a tennis ball against a wall at home or serving for the match in front
of 20,00 at the US Open? Obviously people watching, an audience makes you
nervous, it makes you doubt your ability ,the pressure effects performance but
the elite athletes overcome that cause they are wired different. They are born
to perform and love the attention
Same can be said for the stars of the adult world, I mean I
don’t know about you but when I take a hot chick home and we start to get dirty
I always have that voice in my head saying “I hope I’m big enough, don’t go
soft on me, what move am I gonna use?” now imagine a room full of people in
that scenario and a camera or 3 plus the knowledge that everyone including your
family could easily view this online in about 2 days time? Kinda need a similar
outlook on performing in the clutch.
Now I know the counter argument is hitting a golf ball like
Tiger is a skill but anyone can have sex! Well last time I checked anyone can
hit a golf ball its jus the level of success that varies and the same can be
said for sex, we can all do, doesn’t mean we are all good at it like Jesse Jane. The people you
see on your monitor when you go to redtube are talented, they are fit and they
have refined their skills but most importantly they have an athletes mindset. They
can handle the audience, the moment, the pressure.
It just works, the beautiful people always end up together
we know that, know body respects a gorgeous female naked body more than the
athlete who knows the sacrifice it takes to get in that kind of condition. But
more importantly they are drawn to the same things via their emotional makeup.
They are risk takers, live for the moment spotlight hounds.
For the Pornstar the lure of a physically fit guy who is
traveling from town to town and just wants a rush of adrenalin that matches the
roar of 80,000 fans on a Sunday is something that the risk taking women of this
industry loves.
For the athlete the chance to get their hands on a sexy body
that is not scared, shy or intimidated by their status or stature and is as
refined physically at what they do as he is in his profession, its just too much
One of the big mistakes about beautiful women is they love
the look of bad boys, no they don’t! They love the philosophy !! Dirty hair ,
torn clothes, body odor is no guarantee of getting a night of pleasure from Alexis Texas , it’s the psychological makeup , not the look.
The confident , fearless , I don’t care attitude is the lure
for women who care only about pleasure and guess what most athletes have
buckets of that. So rather than fucking in the back of a van with Flee from Van
Nyes at 2am these girls can do it in a
5 start hotel with Tiger Woods and live large.
The thing about all this is I say good on them! If a woman
is hot and wants to screw her way around town why shouldn’t she? I mean who
doesn’t like doing what they are good at? And as far as I’m concerned if an
athlete is willing to smash himself senseless in the name of my entertainment
he deserves to have a silicone starlet rub all the sore spots better.
My main problem with this relates not only to sex but to
violence, drug abuse and crime amongst both these professions.
When a linebacker destroys a man for running near him he is
a hero and he spends all week being told to be a mongrel but if he losses his
inhibitions on Thursday night after a few beers when Bob the Dry Cleaner tells
him his team sucks, then he is a monster.
For Pornstars its worse, they are judged 100% of the time.
They go on camera and for the most part do things we all do and obviously
entertain the majority when you look at the surveys on porn consumption and
look at the money in the industry yet they are called whores and accused of
corrupting society.
You cant have it both ways if you have watched porn you
don’t get to judge them and if you like sport don’t hate the player for being
combative ,maybe this is the final reason Pornstars and Athletes just work,
they are both idolized but isolated by what they do!!!Whether its as common as i think it is or not,it should be Pornstars and Athletes ,cut from a similar cloth
The Blue Collar Aristocrat
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